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Gay Sexting – the Dos and Don’ts

You’re a gay guy who has never sexted before? Honey, you’ve either been in a coma for the past ten years or you’ve been in a happy, calm relationship, because gay sexting has been repeatedly winning the Oscar for the best picture in the last few years. It’s modern, it’s fast, it’s sexy, it’s nasty and it’s bringing sex buds to your yard.

Man SextingSexting is a great way to meet some new hot guys, especially if you search Gay Snapchat or Gay Kik on the internet and find plenty of usernames. It’s also very good for bringing the heat into your relationship when you use it as foreplay for steamy sex with your significant other.

Gay sexting is an exciting game and it has its own rules. In order to get from it everything you strive for and enjoy sexting at its best, you have to pay attention to some dos and don’ts.

DO: take it slow. Play at first, be a bit ambiguous and witty. Write things that will tease him, but also leave a lot to his imagination. You don’t have to reveal your boldest fantasies in the first line of your sexting, give him space and play the thirst card. Give him a bit, but don’t flood him with dirty talk and descriptions of three sex positions at once. Be flirty and make your first sexts the foreplay of your gay sexting.

DO: be careful. Your nudes shouldn’t include your face. I know, it can kill the vibe sometimes, but remember that this is a random guy from Gay Kik or Gay Snapchat. He might get angry at you at some point or simply try to blackmail you and post your nude selfie online. Play sexy, but smart.

DO: lock the photos. You’re not sexting cats and flowers, it’s sometimes your chest, sometimes your penis. It won’t be pleasant if your friend or mother is scrolling through your photos and your little buddy pops up. Make sure no one can stumble upon the stuff you’re sending that cute ass from Gay Snapchat.

DON’T: flash him with a dick pic. Sure, you’re not hooking up with guys on Gay Kik to play chess with them, and you all want to see some nasty flesh at some point, but exactly then – at some point! Don’t begin your gay sexting party with a photo of your boner, because it’s very possible it’ll end with that very picture. Of course you want to trade dick pics, but wait till it’s comfortable for both of you to level up the game. Focus on words first, be creative, flirty and a bit dirty, and it’ll make him want to see more of you.

DON’T: lie about your look. Men sexting on streetYou are who you are and there’s nothing wrong with that. Someone will like your physical appearance and someone won’t, but nobody will like your lies and you’ll be rejected immediately. Gay sexting isn’t only about looks. As we found out already, it’s good to take it slow and not to start with pics from the start. If your nasty sexts make a guy aroused and lead him to orgasms, your chubby belly or non-giant penis won’t be dealbreakers.

DON’T: lie about the position you prefer. We’re all browsing Gay Kik and Gay Snapchat to find someone to have sex with, that’s why we start with sexting. It’s good to know whether someone could be compatible sex partner in real life. That’s why you should avoid lying about your preferred position in sex. If you’re only a bottom, don’t say that you could also be a top. Maybe you’ll meet your sexting pal at some point and you’ll find yourself in an awkward situation.

There you go, it’s so simple that you can’t make a mistake. Start scrolling through those gay Snapchat and gay Kik forums, because you’re ready to become a real gay sexting pro!